Words cuts.

Too often people finds it so easy to say things that they think is funny, or means nothing - just some flippant words for a cheap or two, but for some (i would say a lot) those words cuts. Deeper than you ever thought and for plenty of us who feels more, we carry it with us like scars.

I'm used to be teased, being bigger than your average petite Asian stereotypes, even when i was once skin and bones, i was never skinny enough for people to stop commenting about my body.

With my demeanor (i am naturally shy, some people mistaken my shyness as bitchiness and sometimes arrogance but when you are older than me/someone i know/a friend of a friend then i tend to hide my shyness with jokes and laughter - which again people mistaken as a welcome sign to say demeaning jokes about me) and my years-younger-appareance (young uns, i'm probably old enough to be your mother) it's just so easy to get too comfortable to say stupid things to me and think that it's okay.

What's weirder to me? Is those people who attacks with their snakey tounges usually have their own weight problems (on both spectrums), this makes me believe that it's their own inability to accept and love their bodies that makes them bitter with the way i love mine. Sad people are pathetic, in their minds others who they think shares their problem (although honestly, they are usually a lot bigger than me) should be as sad and bothered as them, therefore they try to bring you down by saying mean things about you.

Have you ever think people who says mean things about you this way? Coz i know for a fact that it's true... Why can't we all be a little kinder, a little more cautious with our words?
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Trying to cut my own bangs, turns out not so badHappy Eid al Fitr to all my friends who celebrate it. Hope you still enjoy the holiday eventhough we must #stayathome #staysafe #haircut

Eid Mubarak to all my Moslem friends and followers from this accidental little Mermaid 😁. Please stay safe to make sure you and your loved ones are going to be able to have a huge Eid celebration next year 😘🙏🙏🙏. I lost track of time (which is all the time during this self quarantine) so i forgot to make a special Eid look (i also forgot to do a Christmas one last year) but i did wore green eyeshadows in this and i think the color scheme still works for Eid look (i always associated Eid with green) 😁. PS : it seems that i accidentally posted a rather controversial issue last night 😅, my IG story view has doubled overnight (which is always a plus). No matter where you stand in this debate, please know that i respect your view so i hope you can respect mine. I don't understand why people seems not to be able to agree to disagree these days.
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To all my moslem friends,
Happy Eid Mubarak.
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May the goodness and joys of Eid are multiplied millions of times to bring eternal happiness in your life ☘️
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Wearable makeup according to your Zodiac collab with my luvely fwends.

I'm a Libra and according all articles that's related to horoscope and makeup i should look lavish, expensive and glam but still simple.

One of the articles says :
Libra: Expressive and dynamic, a Libra woman enjoys making a distinctive statement with her looks as well as her personality. Classic red lips teamed with minimalistic makeup is exactly what she needs to make her feel she can take on the world, and look classically stylish while doing so.

Since classic red lips is so boring i wore a much deeper and darker lip color (which i achieve by layering 3 different lipsticks including a black one although i probably have 100 of a ready to wear similar shade 🤣. Check out the other zodiacs' looks by my friends and stay tuned for details.

PS : this is just part 1, we'd be back with another version soon!

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I’ve been struggle a lot,to find the right loose powder with good formulas for oily skin and flawless finish.-‘Till my friend suggest me to try @lookecosmetics Holy Smooth and Blur loose powder.This loose powder is so gwed !Texturenya super lembut, gampang banget buat d setting d wajah kita, bisa blend secara natural dlm wkt singkat, butiran powder halusnya buat hasil akhirnya keliatan smooth dan flawless. Pdhl wajah lagi parah”nya krn banyak jerawat.-Oil control formulanya, bs buat wajah aku bebas minyak lebih dari 3 jam 🙈 seneng deh, t-zone ga becek” juga. Jd makin dukung base make up yg aku pakai ☘️... #clozetteid #turnonyourperfection #lookecosmetics #loosepowder #makeupstorage #makeuphacks #settingpowder #bloggersurabaya #bloggerjakarta

As seen on my profile picture!Selama #DirumahAja, apa aja nih kegiatanmu? Kalau aku sih,✨Banyak ikut webinar. Punya waktu luang, mending investasi untuk leher keatas kan? Leher keatas bukan muka doang ya aja tapi ilmu.✨Masak! Bukan masak makan siang gitu sih, aku personally lebih suka bikin dessert kayak cookies, banana cake, es krim, kopi.✨Nulis blog. Aku banyak nambahin variasi konten di blogku jd nggak review doang, kayak #BelajarSkincare, dimana aku share tentang skincare basics.✨Skincare-an, dirumah bukan berarti males skincare ya! Justru pas aku males banget pake sunscreen, mukaku keliatan kusam. Sejak beberapa hari lalu aku udah biasakan pakai sunscreen tiap pagi.✨Catching up with friends. Ngechat temen2 yang udah agak lost contact, dan tanya kabar because why not right?✨Yang paling penting, tetap stay positive and stay busy. Memang rasa penat dirumah dan nggak bersosialisasi itu nggak enak banget. Tapi selama bisa mengisi hari dengan kegiatan produktif, hari berlalu dengan lebih cepat kok..Stay safe everyone 💕.... #jessicaalicias #JessiMekapan #clozetteid #skincareblog