Selamat berbuka dan menunaikan ibadah puasa untuk semua teman muslim-ku. Mohon Maaf lahir batin bila ada salah kata atau perbuatan secara online 😊🙏 #ramadan #ramadankareem 🌙 ⁣⁣⁣
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BELAJAR MENDENGAR DAN DIDENGAR⁣⁣⁣𝙇𝙀𝘼𝙍𝙉 𝙏𝙊 𝙇𝙄𝙎𝙏𝙀𝙉 𝘼𝙉𝘿 𝙏𝙊 𝘽𝙀 𝙃𝙀𝘼𝙍𝘿⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Kita manusia, diciptakan 2 telinga dan 1 mulut. Most people often forget that we have one mouth and two ears, which means we should listen twice as much as we speak. Listening is an art, a path to other people’s heart, an effort requiring patience, sometimes a battle with yourself, and a skill you need to learn in order to evolve as a person ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Sering kali kita sulit belajar mendengarkan orang lain. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Lebih seringnya kita selalu mau didengar tanpa mengindahkan bahwa orang lain juga ingin didengar. Kita terlalu sibuk mengurusi urusan kita sendiri dan berpusat pada, “aku… aku… aku… dan aku…”⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣𝐌𝐄𝐍𝐆𝐇𝐀𝐑𝐆𝐀𝐈⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Menghargai waktu. Ketika proses didengar dan mendengar terkadang kita kurang menghargai orang lain. Hal kecilnya adalah seringnya kita sibuk dengan perangkat lunak dan lebih memilih mencampuri kehidupan orang lain yang kadang kita sendiri tidak dekat atau bahkan tidak kenal sama sekali di media sosial. Dan kita lupa, bahwa memang ada kehadiran orang didekat kita, di hadapan kita yang sedang butuh didengarkan.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Ketika orang itu hadir, bertemu. Tandanya ia menginvestasikan sebagian dari 24 jam yang ia miliki untuk kita. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣People yearn to be heard. They have so much going on in their life and head, that everyone who is willing to just sit and listen to them is like their savior.⁣⁣⁣So why don’t you help someone today by listening to what they have to say? ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣You may be surprised what a positive effect on you this may have.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣—————————————————————————⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ #Nona_HitamPahit #clozetteID #beautyblogger #tannedgirl #quoteoftheday #followme #beautyjournal

𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝘁𝗼 𝗯𝗲 𝗵𝗮𝗽𝗽𝘆?⁣⁣⁣⁣Some people may say money can’t buy happiness. That's true. But money can buy something that can make you feel better, feel happy. A travel to your dreamed country, a fancy handbag that you dying for, or… a food that can make you orgasm? A pleasure that brings desire of happiness.⁣ ⁣⁣Me? 🤔 I think based on current mood is buy foods that I like. Or fancy food at new resto I've been longing for.⁣⁣⁣You have an enormous will, an enormous heart, and an extreme capacity for survival. You’ve taken your the darkest experiences that life gave you. And you turned it around and turned it into light. ⁣⁣⁣⁣Take your time and try to remember how many good and bad things happen in this month. Is it equal? Or, more less? Do you still have a space to put a little bit a smile on your face and be happy? 😊⁣⁣⁣📸 @thiasoediro⁣⁣—————————————————————————⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ #Nona_HitamPahit #clozetteID #beautyblogger #tannedgirl #canggucommunity #followme #malaccacity #throwback

H E L L O☀️ M O N D A YI’m not gonna say, “Monday be nice.” Because it’s never done anything wrong 😉⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣—————————————————————————⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ #Nona_HitamPahit #clozetteID #beautyblogger #tannedgirl #followme #gifted #nzinfluencer #nzblogger #nzlifesyleblogger #nzblog #nzbeautybloggers

𝗛𝗮𝗽𝗽𝘆 𝗩𝗮𝗹𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗲’𝘀 𝗗𝗮𝘆 for everyone! 💝⁣⁣I personally not a big fans of Valentine’s Day because its not tradition in my family, well, also in Indonesian culture. I taught by my mom, if you want to show your love. You don’t have to wait until 14 February. ⁣⁣My best friend said, if you’re a guy. You might be one of romantic person. May be that’s the reason I love to work as event planner as well. Because I love creating something unique, sweet, and extra ordinary.⁣⁣And last week my classmate from Korea, Ji Yeoung @j.0.2 , a very nice lady gave me this little note because on Friday we had to write love letter at school. I feel touched. What a lovely words she poured on the paper! She’s such a sweet girl, a cheery smart one who lent me her hot water bottle when I had cramp of period. 💕 She also gonna teach me how to make Namul! ommoo… 😍⁣⁣There is 5 love languages; receiving gifts, quality time, words of affirmation, physical touch, and last one is… act of service. I typically not gonna say ‘I love you’ or ‘I miss you’ to my partner (except my besties🙆🏼‍♀️). I love watch and learn. Try to understand and keep in mind their habit, what they like and don’t. ⁣⁣Anywaaayy… whatever your love language is… show your love to anyone you care not only on 14th Feb 💚❤️🧡💛 Have you check your love language? Mine is 𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒐𝒇 𝒔𝒆𝒓𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆. Go check yourself on 5lovelanguages.com. You also able do with your loved one 😉⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣—————————————————————————⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ #Nona_HitamPahit #clozetteID #beautyblogger #tannedgirl #followme #gifted #nzinfluencer #nzblogger #nzlifesyleblogger #nzblog #valentinesday #nzbeautybloggers

𝐍 𝐎 𝐍 𝐀 𝐇 𝐈 𝐓 𝐀 𝐌 𝐏 𝐀 𝐇 𝐈 𝐓⁣ ⁣
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I don’t know when exactly I created this name to be my personal brand. I think it was created in 2014 or 2015. I blogging since 2009 but it was still random posts. But started 2011 I changed. ⁣
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I remember I had my first side hustle job as a beauty blogger for PONDS. I got a big PR package and fee those time. I didn’t know there was a serious business behind what I’ve done. ⁣
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Back then, I used elnienesia.blogspot.com I didn’t know we can customise the domain name until I realise, my name is just my name. What makes people will remember or frowning their face by the time they heard my name or nickname? 🤔⁣
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In Indonesia, there is a phrase, Nona Hitam Manis means Miss Sweet Brown (for someone who has a nice chocolate skin tone). I like that phrase but I wasn’t confident enough to call my self as a Ms. Pretty-sun-kissed-tone. However, I changed the sweet part into bitter. Perhaps I could be a bitter person, sometimes. Or too blunt to say something. 🤷🏽‍♀️ From that moment, Nona Hitam Pahit became my personal branding. Wherever I go, this name is a part of my identity, my journey. Every time I met people, they always wonder and definitely asked, why nona hitam pahit? That’s how I start my ice breaker. ⁣
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Who knows, this name brought me to broaden my horizon, open all the opportunities I never expected. Until last time, somebody said hi to me and asked, are you Nona Hitam Pahit? I smiled. 😊 Yes, that’s the story behind of 𝘄𝘄𝘄.𝗻𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗵𝗶𝘁𝗮𝗺𝗽𝗮𝗵𝗶𝘁.𝗰𝗼𝗺⁣
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🗣🗣 𝗦𝗨𝗗𝗔𝗛 𝗣𝗔𝗞𝗘 𝗠𝗔𝗦𝗞𝗘𝗥 𝗕𝗘𝗟𝗢𝗢𝗢𝗠𝗠𝗠???⁣⁣⁣⁣Masker pakenya buat nutupi mulut sama idung ya. Bukan buat mata kecuali kamu mata keranjang 🙈 #EGIMANA ⁣⁣⁣⁣𝙢𝙖𝙨.𝙠𝙚𝙧 /𝙢𝙖𝙨𝙠ê𝙧/⁣⁣n alat untuk menutup muka; topeng untuk si muka dua. Atau nutup mulut yang suka julid? #EAAA ⁣⁣⁣⁣Untuk menghindari dari 𝙎𝘼𝙆𝙄𝙏 (𝘢𝘥𝘫) keadaan kurang menyenangkan di bagian tubuh yang biasanya disebabkan oleh virus, penyakit, dikhianati, diselingkuhi, digantungin dan diputusin. Hayooo… ngaku kamu yang mana??? 🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️⁣⁣⁣⁣Cakep kan maskerku? Cakep dong! Monmaap ini boleh beli di @saltnpepper_id . Demi gerakan mendukung usaha keluarga sahabat! Bahannya nyaman, terus enhance penampilan jadi lebih misterius macem gebetan kamu yang tiba-tiba ngilang.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣On serious note: every time I post my picture on my social media, I always have big consideration. I will ask to my circle and mas bojo, is it too sexy or bitchy? And question to my self: will I regret in the next 5 years later after post this photo? Will I make embarrass my family, relatives?⁣⁣⁣⁣Seperti yang mamak eke selalu bilang : KITA BOLEH MISKIN YA. TAPI JANGAN MURAHAN! Dignity is a must. Inget keluarga di kampung.⁣⁣⁣⁣Inget 6M: , ⁣⁣1. mencuci tangan pakai sabun dan air mengalir, ⁣⁣2. menjaga jarak, ⁣⁣3. menjauhi kerumunan, serta ⁣⁣4. membatasi mobilisasi dan interaksi, ⁣⁣5. memakai masker, ⁣⁣6. menjaga mulut dari omongan jahat!⁣⁣⁣⁣—————————————————————————⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ #Nona_HitamPahit #clozetteID #beautyblogger #tannedgirl #followme #exploreNZ #auckland #capturenz #aucklandblogger ⁣ #NZmustDo #capturenz #newzealandnatural #newzealandpics #purenz #nzphotography⁣⁣ #outfit #fashion #style #ootd

Weekend well spent! Been awhile not to post anything. I think I’m quite enjoying working on 3 jobs and full-time studying at the same time. Also, still happy the blogger/buzzer job still coming and on going. Life of side hustle 🤞🏽 ⁣
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Since my classmate was asking me to write in English. Let’s do this! Not only for them, but also to practise my writing skill to the next level. Grammar nazi are welcome to correcting me. 🙌🏽⁣
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Thank you for my classmate @shiori5604 who agreed with this crazy idea to come with me. Never ever crossed my mind I ever did wall climbing. Why? I’m scared of height. So is she! Didn’t think she will agree with this idea. ⁣
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It was funny, at the beginning she was quite scared enough. Turns out she was the bravest one 😂 I was chickened out every time to go down free-fly. But look at her, climbed up to the top and went down without worries.⁣
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On Saturday, went to Parnell Market to see what they have but mostly food and not many people there. Then, today, supposed to go to Piha Beach but ended up on Karekare Beach. It was fine day to walk on the beach. Even the wind pretty hard to kick. ⁣
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Think I’m ready for Monday… not with my essay homework 😌 ⁣
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How about your weekend spend? Tell the story down on comment box 👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻⁣
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🗣 𝗔𝗞𝗔𝗡𝗚 𝗚𝗘𝗡𝗗𝗔𝗡𝗚 𝗞𝗔𝗟𝗢 𝗔𝗞𝗨 𝗕𝗜𝗟𝗔𝗡𝗚 𝗕𝗔𝗖𝗢𝗧, …. 𝗬𝗔𝗔𝗔~ (ISILAH TITIK TITIK)⁣
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Hi sobat julidku 👋🏻⁣
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Udah lama nggak nge-𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵. Rame banget belakangan ini ya perihal bentuk tubuh. Zuzyuurrr… apa yang kamu liat di sosmed itu adalah hasil kurasi beberapa foto yang diambil bekali-kali sampe pinggang gempor dengan angle pose supaya nggak tampak chubby dan bantet. Belom lagi, itu foto diedit sedemikian rupa sampe jadi Selena Gomak. Nobodies perfect. Including me. Karena kenapa? Kadang mulut netijyen lebih jahat dari pada mulut Bu Tedjo. Bukan begitu, Cabelita?⁣
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Jadi yang bilang, "iiih… kamu cantik banget!" Kuncinya beberapa nih; pose, angle foto, mikap, dan editing. Buat yang mulutnya pada pedes-pedes, coba pake lipen merah kayak difoto aku. Shade Hangry dari @lakmemakeup ini salah satu favorit. Tau kan aku suka lipen merah merona? Karena solusi mudah untuk males make-up-an. Sneak peek dulu ya. Nanti bakal aku review lengkap diblog as usual, ᴡᴡᴡ.ɴᴏɴᴀʜɪᴛᴀᴍᴘᴀʜɪᴛ.ᴄᴏᴍ⁣
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Hair by @sissyclip
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