I think I’m getting tired to get question, 𝙬𝙝𝙚𝙣 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙜𝙚𝙩𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙢𝙖𝙧𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙙 𝙞𝙣𝙨𝙩𝙚𝙖𝙙 𝙝𝙤𝙬’𝙨 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙗𝙚𝙚𝙣 𝙩𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙮𝙤𝙪?⁣⁣People kept asking something seems fun as slapstick which they think would be ok. ⁣⁣Nah! Come on, this is 2019! If someone not getting married last year, this year or next year, would it be bother you? Or, if they getting married now, would you help to finance the wedding reception?⁣⁣Something needs to keep in private, that’s why it’s called personal.So change the question or statement on below:⁣⁣“ɴᴀɴᴛɪ ᴊᴀᴅɪ ᴘᴇʀᴀᴡᴀɴ ᴛᴜᴀ. ɴɢɢᴀᴋ ᴀᴅᴀ ʏᴀɴɢ ᴍᴀᴜ.”⁣“𝗜𝗵... 𝗴𝗲𝗻𝗱𝘂𝘁𝗮𝗻 𝘆𝗮?”⁣“𝙼𝚊𝚜𝚒𝚑 𝚜𝚒𝚗𝚐𝚕𝚎? 𝙿𝚊𝚌𝚊𝚛𝚗𝚢𝚊 𝚖𝚊𝚗𝚊?”⁣“U̲d̲a̲h̲ ̲s̲e̲g̲i̲n̲i̲ ̲b̲e̲l̲u̲m̲ ̲n̲i̲k̲a̲h̲ ̲j̲u̲g̲a̲?̲”⁣⁣⁣Into:⁣“ᴏʜ ᴍʏ ɢᴏᴅ! ʏᴏᴜ ʟᴏᴏᴋ ɢʀᴇᴀᴛ! ʜᴏᴡ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ʙᴇᴇɴ ᴅᴏɪɴɢ?”⁣“𝗔𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗵𝗮𝗽𝗽𝘆 𝗻𝗼𝘄?”⁣“𝙃𝙤𝙬’𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙠/𝙗𝙪𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙜𝙤𝙞𝙣𝙜? 𝙎𝙚𝙚𝙢𝙨 𝙮𝙤𝙪’𝙧𝙚 𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮 𝙖𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙫𝙚 𝙖𝙜𝙜𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙞𝙫𝙚! 𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙖 𝙜𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚.”⁣⁣No one would like to get statement ‘fat’ the fact she got that because she was in pregnancy hormones program who longing for baby since couple years. ⁣⁣Not all people would like to be alone. They might have some relationship trauma in the past. Or, they might be single because they’re busy to make their selves happier than yours. ⁣⁣⁣It sounds more positive, right? Before you say something to people, make sure to ask yourself the same question, would it be hurt myself if 𝗔𝗠 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗢𝗡𝗘 get the question? ⁣⁣⁣Not everyone would love to have same page like you. If you’ve done that, doesn’t mean you have privilege to feel superior from others. Marriage is not accomplishment.⁣⁣For me personal, I’m more worry if I will be a parent who not able to provide a good education to my kids then they grow to be a person who repeating same mistake like stupid head by asking people, kok belum nikah udah umur segini? Nggak takut perawan tua? Kok makin gendutan?⁣⁣—————————————————————————⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ #𝐍𝐨𝐧𝐚_𝐇𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐦𝐏𝐚𝐡𝐢𝐭 #clozetteid #beautyblogger #proudtobeindonesian #womenempowerment #IndonesianFemaleBloggers